Sex-positive Books List

Recently published

Polysecure by by Jessica Fern
Sex positive now by Gabosch Allena & Jeremy Shub
An intro guide to a sex-positive you by Yael Rosenstock
Witches, Sluts, feminists by Kristen J. Sollee
Queer Sex by Juno Roche
Beyond cuddle party by Monique Darling, Avid Awake
Bondage: A Practical Manual for Beginners: Shibari and Kinbaku by Davide La Greca
Positive Sexuality: A Kid’s Inclusive Guide to Being Body Aware by Mrs Sara Matilde Perry & Ms Kylie A Sivley
Doing It: Let’s Talk About Sex… by H. Witton
Pleasure Activism : The Politics of Feeling Good By Adrienne Maree Brown
Becoming Dangerous: Witchy Femmes, Queer Conjurers, and Magical Rebels by Katie West & Jasmine Elliott
Queer Magic by Lee Harrington & Tai Fenix Kulystin
Life Isn’t Binary : On Being Both, Beyond, and in-Between By Alex Iantaffi , By Meg-John Barker
Untervöglet? by Volker Schmidt

Bestseller Books

Ethical Sluts by Janet W. Hardy, Dossie Easton
Come as you are by Emily Nagoski Ph.D.
Sex & Happiness – The Tantric Laws of Intimacy
The New Bottoming Book | Easton, Liszt, Hardy, Fish
The New Topping Book | Dossie Easton, Janet W. Hardy
Love – Osho
Die Kunst des liebens Erich fromm


The conscious sexual self workbook
The jealousy workbook
Come as you are workbook
Unf*ck your Intimacy Workbook

Recommed from others

The 5 love languages
Sex at Dawn & (the response book) Sex at Dusk
Loving what is
More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory by Franklin Veaux, Tatiana Gill, Eve Rickert
The Art of sex coaching – Patti britton
Storys from the polycule

Books mentioned at the S+ Munch

Bliss club: Sex tips for creative lovers by June Pla
Post Porn modernist by Annie Sprinkle
King Kong Theory by Despantes

Rewriting the rules by Meg-john Barker
Women’s anatomy of arousal by Sheri winston
More than two – a practical guide to ethical polyamory
“Perfect Love, imperfect relationships – healing the wound of the heart” John Welwood
Mask Off (Sei kein Mann) by J J Bola
Kimchi Cuddles: Ask Me About Polyamory
Liv Strömquist: The Fruit of Knowledge
Liv Strömquist: The origin of love – About Patriarchy and Monogamy and Capitalism and how it all is intersecting

Books in German

Psychologie der Intimität by Tobias Ruland
Die sexuelle Revolution & Die Funktion des Orgasmus by Wilhelm Reich
Schlampen mit Moral by Janet W. Hardy, Dossie Easton
Die 5 Sprachen der Liebe by Gary Chapman
Die andere Beziehung by Imre Hofmann und Dominique Zimmermann
Die Psychologie sexueller Leidenschaft by David Schnarch
Gewaltfreie Kommunikation: Eine Sprache des Lebens by Marshall B. Rosenberg

Book lists from other Associations

Sex-positive Belgium
Sex-positive Families
Sex-positive Psych


Related Articles

Poly Secure

by Jessica Fern Polyamorous psychotherapist Jessica Fern extends attachment theory into the realm of consensual

Read More

Get Involved