Books recommendations  

Polysecure by by Jessica Fern 
Sex positive now by Gabosch Allena & Jeremy Shub
An intro guide to a sex-positive you by Yael Rosenstock

Ethical Sluts by Janet W. Hardy, Dossie Easton –  Klassiker rund um ethisch gelebte Polyamorie
Come as you are by Emily Nagoski Ph.D.

Rewriting the rules by Meg-john Barker

Witches, Sluts, feminists by Kristen J. Sollee – 
Beyond cuddle party by Monique Darling, Avid Awake
Pleasure Activism : The Politics of Feeling Good By Adrienne Maree Brown

Doing It: Let’s Talk About Sex… by H. Witton


Queer Sex by Juno Roche – 

Positive Sexuality: A Kid’s Inclusive Guide to Being Body Aware by Mrs Sara Matilde Perry & Ms Kylie A Sivley

Becoming Dangerous: Witchy Femmes, Queer Conjurers, and Magical Rebels by Katie West & Jasmine Elliott
Queer Magic by Lee Harrington & Tai Fenix Kulystin

Life Isn’t Binary : On Being Both, Beyond, and in-Between By Alex Iantaffi , By Meg-John Barker


Other Books

  • The New Bottoming Book | Easton, Liszt, Hardy, Fish
  • The New Topping Book | Dossie Easton, Janet W. Hardy
  • Love – Osho
  • Die Kunst des liebens Erich fromm
  • Sex & Happiness – The Tantric Laws of Intimacy


  • The conscious sexual self workbook
  • The jealousy workbook
  • Come as you are workbook
  • Unf*ck your Intimacy Workbook

Recommed from others

  • The 5 love languages
  • Sex at Dawn & (the response book) Sex at Dusk
  • Loving what is
  • More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory by Franklin Veaux, Tatiana Gill, Eve Rickert
  • The Art of sex coaching – Patti britton
  • Storys from the polycule
  • Bondage: A Practical Manual for Beginners: Shibari and Kinbaku by Davide La Greca

Books in German

Psychologie der Intimität by Tobias Ruland
Die sexuelle Revolution & Die Funktion des Orgasmus by Wilhelm Reich
Schlampen mit Moral by Janet W. Hardy, Dossie Easton
Die 5 Sprachen der Liebe by Gary Chapman
Die andere Beziehung by Imre Hofmann und Dominique Zimmermann
Die Psychologie sexueller Leidenschaft by David Schnarch
Gewaltfreie Kommunikation: Eine Sprache des Lebens by Marshall B. Rosenberg

Books mentioned at the S+ Munch

Bliss club: Sex tips for creative lovers by June Pla
Post Porn modernist by Annie Sprinkle
King Kong Theory by Despantes

Women’s anatomy of arousal by Sheri winston
More than two – a practical guide to ethical polyamory
“Perfect Love, imperfect relationships – healing the wound of the heart” John Welwood
Mask Off (Sei kein Mann) by J J Bola
Kimchi Cuddles: Ask Me About Polyamory
Liv Strömquist: The Fruit of Knowledge
Liv Strömquist: The origin of love – About Patriarchy and Monogamy and Capitalism and how it all is intersecting

Book lists from other Associations

Sex-positive Belgium
Sex-positive Families
Sex-positive Psych


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